“A jug fills drop by drop.” – Buddha
This is a process. It will not happen by itself and it will not happen overnight. No one can do it for you nor against your will. Before you can redefine your life–before you can heal–you have to take the first step. The more steps you move through, the fuller your ‘jar’ becomes. Before you know it, you will be a whole person once again.
Through this process, you will make great strides. Be warned: you might take a step or two backward. Please don’t be discouraged. This is a winding, bumpy journey. Take comfort in good moments and let those moments carry you through the tough ones. If ever you start to doubt your path, take a moment and look behind you. Think about where you started and see where you are now. Your strength and growth will amaze you.